Signs He Is Using You for a Place to Live

Signs He Is Using You for a Place to Live

Love can cloud our judgment, especially when emotions are high and we want to believe the best about someone. But what happens when your partner seems more interested in your couch than your heart?

Unfortunately, some men enter relationships not out of genuine affection, but out of convenience—especially if they’re looking for free shelter, food, or financial security. If you’re starting to feel more like a landlord than a loved one, it’s time to take a closer look.

Here are the warning signs he might be using you just for a place to live—plus a comparison table to help you spot red flags more easily.


🔍 Quick Comparison Table

Healthy Partner BehaviorRed Flag: He Might Be Using You
Pays or offers to split rent and billsAvoids paying rent, never contributes to expenses
Talks about building a future togetherTalks only about short-term needs like staying longer
Shows affection and invests emotionallyDistant or cold once his needs are met
Has a job or is actively seeking oneNo job, no effort to find work, depends entirely on you
Respects your space and boundariesOversteps boundaries, acts entitled to your home

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