Love can cloud our judgment, especially when emotions are high and we want to believe the best about someone. But what happens when your partner seems more interested in your couch than your heart?
Unfortunately, some men enter relationships not out of genuine affection, but out of convenience—especially if they’re looking for free shelter, food, or financial security. If you’re starting to feel more like a landlord than a loved one, it’s time to take a closer look.
Here are the warning signs he might be using you just for a place to live—plus a comparison table to help you spot red flags more easily.
🔍 Quick Comparison Table
| Healthy Partner Behavior | Red Flag: He Might Be Using You |
|---|---|
| Pays or offers to split rent and bills | Avoids paying rent, never contributes to expenses |
| Talks about building a future together | Talks only about short-term needs like staying longer |
| Shows affection and invests emotionally | Distant or cold once his needs are met |
| Has a job or is actively seeking one | No job, no effort to find work, depends entirely on you |
| Respects your space and boundaries | Oversteps boundaries, acts entitled to your home |
